Letters of Support
For the past few months, I’ve been vigorously working on my husband’s immigration case. It involved a lot of writing, office type work, obtaining and making copies of records, and gathering information. None of it was easy. But the hardest thing for me was asking for what’s known as “Letters of Support,” which basically vouch that Amor is a good, decent person and upstanding member of society. I have social anxiety (along with Bipolar Disorder) and for so long, Amor and I have kept his immigration status hush-hush. Now, however, we had to come out of the shadows (so to speak) and admit the truth to friends and family that (gasp & shame, shame!) my husband entered this country illegally. He was 16 years old when his brothers first brought him here and he has built his entire adult life in the US.
It was stressful and nerve-wracking for me to announce this and ask for help. But it had to be done, as part of the petition process. So, I wrote down a list of 25 names of friends, family, and acquaintances. It was scary to me to think of contacting these people without knowing their political stance or possible prejudices regarding this touchy issue. But I took several deep breaths, and said a few prayers and started contacting.
The response I received was shocking. Our community of friends and family were more than willing to help us file by writing for us. In all, I collected 20 notarized letters! I saw how kind and generous these people were to take time out of their own hectic lives to invest in ours. They had to actually sit down and think about me, Amor and our kids, construct the letter, then go get it notarized. A few of these people, I know had physical health issues. One had a newborn baby. Another person is a dear friend whom we haven’t physically seen in over a decade, but we’ve kept in touch via social media. Yet another had problems getting the statement notarized because her identification was expired but she made it happen! Each person went out of their way to help us.
I read each letter as they trickled in. Each one with optimistic affirmations about us and our family. After gathering them all, I sat down and re-read them. It wasn’t just the quantity that astounded me, but the quality as well. These people wrote from their hearts. I know we are in their prayers. Tears of gratitude trickled down my face.
Our case has since been put on hold, for now, anyway. But we have our paperwork ready at a moment’s notice. Now, whenever our attorney says to submit, we will be ready and able to move forward. Thank you, so much for those of you who helped us. We love and appreciate you all.
(July 2016, Twins 2, Mica 8, Hope 7)
Double Talk Quote: Amor – “I’m too smart for that show” (Ruff Ruff, Tweet and Dave). Me – “That’s why I watch Curious George.”
Bible Verse: “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:4
Term that has Earned its meaning: true friendship
Relatable Lyrics: Lean On Me by Bill Withers
“If there is a load you have to bear, that you can’t carry, I’m right up the road, I’ll share your load if you just call me, if you need a friend…We all need somebody to lean on.”
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